There are several things that people find attractive and
each of us has a reason for finding that trait appealing. I have made an incomplete list
Pretty eyes: Window to the soul
Large Chest (male): Protection and strength
Nice hair: Run your fingers through it
Submissive: Needing someone to follow
Saver: Someone who saves money, security
Decisive: Ability to make good decisions quickly and thoroughly
Needy: Some people need someone to rely on them
Clean: Some people need to have the other person overly
clean
Large Bank Account: security
Smile: Friendly appearance
Athletic: Healthy
Smart: Intellect and typically a job
Dominant: Someone to take charge of the family
Wise: Makes good decisions
Spender: Fellow shopper
Witty: Good intellect and the ability to convey it
Funny: Make a person laugh is good medicine
Nice: Gives the benefit of doubt instead of jumping to
conclusions, doesn't say mean things
Easy going: Generally good natured and is an optimist
Self-reliant: Very little need from the other partner
Neat: Tidy and organized
That’s a good enough list, and I can tell you that some
of those went to the top of my list and some of those are a total turn off. But
what I realize now as I look over the list I made when looking for a spouse was
what was missing. The one trait that is missing is “Loves God” as it says in
Proverbs 31:30 “Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears
the Lord is to be praised.” That verse can be applied to either gender.
People should have a list of traits they would like in a spouse, because Marriage is forever. However, at the top of that list should be part of the greatest commandment which is found in Matthew 22:36-37, "‘Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?’ Jesus replied: ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’" If they love the Lord with all their heart, soul and mind, then most of those other traits will fall into place.
People should have a list of traits they would like in a spouse, because Marriage is forever. However, at the top of that list should be part of the greatest commandment which is found in Matthew 22:36-37, "‘Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?’ Jesus replied: ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’" If they love the Lord with all their heart, soul and mind, then most of those other traits will fall into place.
And if they love God more than they love you, then divorce will not be in their vocabulary.
Lord, thank You for taking my list and without me
realizing it, putting a woman that loves You into my life. Thank You for the many blessings that I enjoy.
Lord let me do your work, and help guide me in my journey to become more like You. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.
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